We hear it all the time “don’t compare yourself to others” but in reality, it’s very difficult. As soon as we see someone with something we want, we feel envious and it often leads to feelings of inadequacy or feeling like we don’t have enough. When we do something that we see as taking us … Continue reading Overcoming the green-eyed monster
Last week I was thrown off my horse and landed on my ankle. It broke in a number of places and I ended up having surgery that night with 2 plates inserted into either side of my leg. My surgeon has instructed me to bed rest for 2 weeks, a cast or boot (depending how … Continue reading I BROKE MY ANKLE! How I’m eating (and not-moving) now that I’m bed-ridden.
Okay, so I am often saying that diets suck, we shouldn’t diet or attempt to lose weight through traditional means, and we need to embrace our bodies as they are. But I realise this isn’t as easy as it sounds, and sometimes we get some really intense thoughts that we need to lose weight. See, … Continue reading FAQ: I want to quit dieting, but summer is coming and I’m unhappy with my body. What do I do?
I’m a personal trainer, so 99% of clients who come to me do so because they want to lose weight. ‘I’ve tried everything’ they say. When I ask more questions about why they want to lose weight I always get the same response, ‘to feel confident’. It’s not unusual that tears are shed at this … Continue reading Why you should never ever ever diet or attempt to lose weight through diet changes ever again (no matter what your size).
I used to get bloated all the time. A specialist told me it was IBS. At the time, treatment for IBS was a low fibre diet, including white bread, and that made it worse. Then the treatment changed to a low fructose diet, which pretty much means you can’t eat most vegetables or fruits, … Continue reading Why your bloating might have nothing to do with what you’re eating (and how to reduce it without changing your diet).
This is also known as intuitive eating. (P.S. This is a long post, go grab a cuppa and settle down.) I’m going to start with a disclaimer: you can’t learn to eat intuitively by reading a step by step blog post, or even reading a book. Sure, this will help (I hope) but intuitive eating … Continue reading How to eat without rules or guidelines and still have control